SEEN another way we lose a family member and learn something of life, but why suffering is optional: involves the decision to retain in mind something that happened, something that is already passed. The human being has to get to know all the States, but is not good to stay with a sadness that we stay stuck, both good things and bad things. The past is gone, and no vale not wanting to admit it and stuck in this. FROM a more spiritual point of view, one of the major obstacles to achieve our spiritual development is the fear to suffer. It is essential to have this very clear before you start, and is very important to be clear that must be overcome it, because the suffering is going to appear, although we will try to avoid it. We can overcome this obstacle by knowing the wrong reasons on which uphold this fear, since it will propose us on numerous occasions that we abandon the road and break the commitment to search and growth.

The suffering is not unfair, nor cruel, nor is an evil always. The suffering of the soul is the necessary step to realize that we want to release it, and the pain is the stage preceding to release: paradoxically, if we do not feel the pain wouldn’t that it produces pain. This pain develops the power of inner resistance which is an indispensable condition for spiritual development, and compels us to us desliguemos abroad and focus on the deepening of ourselves; urges us to seek advice, light and peace within ourselves: makes us disclose against ourselves. Then by which everything we see in negative way?, do you that pain us curl, fills us with anger and pushes us to cause evil, hate, or violence? Because we only accept its worst face. Because does not understand by itself has no force: is only how accept or reject, and that allow you make in us with us, giving you the power to affect us.